Parenting Arrangements: Understanding the best interests of the child

October 19, 2026

When parents separate, one of the most important decisions is determining arrangements for their children. In Australia, family law focuses on one guiding principle above all others: the best interests of the child.


Whether parents reach an agreement themselves or require Court intervention, the child's wellbeing, safety and development remain the primary consideration.


What Does "Best Interests of the Child" Mean?

Under Australian family law, decisions about parenting arrangements must prioritise what is best for the child rather than the preferences of either parent.


There is no automatic rule that children should spend equal time with each parent. Every family's circumstances are different, and parenting arrangements should reflect the child's individual needs.


Factors the Court Considers

  • When determining parenting orders, the Court may consider:
  • The child's safety and protection from harm;
  • The child's emotional, psychological and developmental needs;
  • The child's views, depending on their age and maturity;
  • Each parent's ability to care for and support the child;
  • The benefit of maintaining important family relationships; and
  • Cultural and family connections where relevant.
  • The Court assesses each family's circumstances individually to determine what arrangement will best support the child's wellbeing.


Shared Parental Responsibility

Many parents assume that separation automatically means equal decision-making responsibility. However, following recent changes to Australian family law, there is no longer a presumption of equal shared parental responsibility.


Instead, the Court will determine who should make major long-term decisions based on the child's best interests. These decisions may include matters such as:


  • Education;
  • Medical treatment;
  • Religious upbringing; and
  • Significant welfare issues.


Parental responsibility is separate from the amount of time a child spends with each parent.


Living Arrangements and Parenting Schedules


Parenting arrangements can take many forms. A child may:

  • Live primarily with one parent and spend time with the other;
  • Spend substantial time with both parents; or
  • Follow a shared care arrangement.


When considering living arrangements, factors such as schooling, distance between homes, parental work commitments and the child's routine are all relevant.


The goal is to create a stable arrangement that supports the child's needs and ongoing relationships with both parents where appropriate.


Relocation Disputes

Relocation disputes arise when one parent wishes to move with the child, either within Australia or overseas.


If the move would significantly impact the child's relationship with the other parent, an agreement or Court approval may be required.

The Court will consider whether the proposed move is in the child's best interests, including the impact on family relationships, education and overall wellbeing.


Parenting Orders vs Informal Agreements

Many separated parents successfully reach agreements without attending Court.


Informal Agreements

Informal arrangements offer flexibility but are generally not legally enforceable if disputes arise later.


Parenting Plans

A Parenting Plan is a written agreement between parents that outlines arrangements for children. While useful, Parenting Plans are not usually legally enforceable.


Parenting Orders

Parenting Orders are legally binding and can be made by agreement or through a Court decision. They may address:


  • Where a child lives;
  • Time spent with each parent;
  • Communication arrangements;
  • School holiday schedules; and
  • Decision-making responsibilities.


Legally binding Parenting Orders can provide certainty and reduce the risk of future disputes.


Need Advice About Parenting Arrangements?

Parenting disputes can be emotionally challenging and legally complex. Obtaining legal advice early can help parents understand their rights, resolve disagreements and create arrangements that support the best interests of their child.


If you need assistance with parenting arrangements, parenting orders, relocation disputes or child custody matters in NSW, our experienced family law team is here to help. Call our office on 02 6542 5566 to schedule an appointment and discuss your options.


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