Happy Households at Christmas

Christmas and the summer holidays should be a joyful time for children, but for separated or divorced families, this period can bring added stress and tension.

This is why the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia prioritises urgent parenting matters in December, recognising that conflict often arises as parents try to maximise time with their children during the holidays. Children are highly sensitive to conflict between their parents, even when adults believe they are shielding them from it.

When planning holiday arrangements, parents should focus on what is in the child’s best interests. While special days like Christmas Day can feel significant, flexibility is key. Celebrating Christmas on different days with each parent can allow children to enjoy the

season with both families. With school holidays often lasting six to eight weeks, there is usually time for meaningful time with each parent.

If parenting orders or a parenting plan are in place, these arrangements must be followed. Where arrangements are informal, open communication, cooperation, and common sense can help prevent misunderstandings and avoid unnecessary conflict.

If disagreements arise, family dispute resolution or mediation can be effective. In more complex situations, seeking advice from an experienced family lawyer may help parents reach practical solutions that prioritise the wellbeing of their children.  If you wish to speak to a Family Lawyer, please contact our office on 02 6542 5566.

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